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Saturday, October 29, 2011

Comfort Zone

Bill Erwin
I visited a Toastmaster meeting with no idea of what to expect. There were some very impressive speakers who were willing to share their experience in a positive setting.

After a couple of meetings, I felt comfortable enough to participate in "Table Topics" where I stood up to answer a short question about a fun topic.  After noticing the improvement of the newer speakers, I felt ready to do my own "Icebreaker" speech where I get to talk about myself.  That made me nervous.  But I can think of no better way (or place) to step out of my "comfort zone" and drag it to where I want it to be!

Saturday, October 15, 2011

Always Exit on the Second Floor

Holly Trinh
One day, I realized that I was not satisfied with my level of communication.  I needed to be more effective in public speaking and writing.  I also wanted to develop leadership skills.  I prayed and asked the Lord to grant me wisdom and guide me down the right path to better communication. 

Late one afternoon in September 2010, I searched the internet using the keywords “Toastmasters and Fort Worth.”  Afterburners Toastmasters was the very first of about 186,000 results.  I read through some highlighted points and it sounded like just what I needed.  Then I called one of the representatives who agreed to meet me at the next meeting.  

On Tuesday, I got off from work and rushed straight to the Afterburners Toastmaster Club meeting located in downtown Fort Worth.  I was very nervous because I didn’t know anyone and didn’t know what to expect.  When I walked in the classroom, I was amazed to see a room full of people.  Their hospitality and professionalism was immeasurable.  Several people greeted and welcomed me.  The members that spoke that night showed so much confidence and talent. 

The meeting ended about 8:30 pm.  I took the elevator by myself because I thought I knew where I was going.  I rushed out of the elevator door into a dark and scary hallway.  For a moment, I thought this was the door I came in by the security counter, but where was the parking lot?  I realized I was at the wrong exit door.  I was lost and terrified.  I didn’t know what to do.  I thought I should call 911, and then I remembered I had a copy of the members’ phone list.  I proceeded to call almost everyone on the list until someone answered.  To make a long story short, everyone was so gracious and they helped me get out safely.  Now I know to always exit on the second floor.

I came back the next Tuesday and didn’t hesitate to join the club.  I was voted in and assigned a mentor to help me.  My breakthrough moment happened when I gave my first speech, the “Ice Breaker.”   I was so nervous.  My heart was beating so fast.  I told myself that I needed a lot of prayer and confidence to do this.     

The Toastmasters manual helped me develop and organize my speeches.  I followed the steps to define my supporting points and explain my objectives.  With my mentor’s help, I was able to build my confidence each time I spoke.  So far, I have completed ten speeches.  I have achieved the level of Competent Communicator (CC).  I am very happy and proud of myself to have made it this far.  I feel more confident today than I did a year ago.  Toastmasters helped me improve my speaking, writing and leadership skills.  I plan to continue with Toastmasters and I dream that one day I will become a professional speaker and a role model to others.